It's a great letter - BUT.

Number one, you have to believe it and mean it.
And number two, your WAS has to be in a frame of mind where s/he can look at it without getting defensive or uncomfortible or cynical or dismissive like "it's too late now pal."

I could not give my WAW a letter like that.

First of all I couldn't believe the words myself if W were to remain in her present fog, so it would be totally conditional and insincere.
And secondly, while she has been determined to be free and in a MLC EA/PA fog, she's nowhere near ready to even hear those words.

Now that's my own sitch, but it's a perspective to think about.

Me 53 XW 50
M 18 Years +2
S14 D19
Bomb 10-24-10
Served 1-27-11
Mediate 4-21-11
Civil D Final 6-2-11
No church anullment
"A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."