OK, I went back and read ALL of your old posts, and the advice that you were given originally. It seems to me that you were given SPOT-ON advice from Sandi, Coach, Bond and several others, and you were too weak to follow it.
I suggest that you go back and re-read those old posts to you, and do some soul-searching. There's no reason to ask for a NEW roadmap, when one has already been provided.