Hi SA - after reading your post and replying to you I had a couple of the weirdest dreams. Each time I dreamed that my xh and I were back together again. Although it was two dreams because I woke up after the first and had a glass of water, they took place in the same setting and the same circs. Everything had happened - the divorce and our surgery, so it was 'real' and we were getting along fine . . . .
Well I woke this morning realising that I absolutely do not want to live with hm again. It is so liberating. All the final doubts and lingering regrets gone. Yes, I still love the man he was and I loved being married to him, but I don't want who he is [even post MLC]
Perhaps you are re-visiting the emotional possibility, as I think I was a while back, and trying to decide whether you are really 'over' him. I don't think it means we stop loving, and can be pleasant to them. It means we are now focused fully on the future, and not the past.
