Congrats on the D! I'll celebrate mine by running naked down the street- though I wouldn't recommend that to you
As for single guys...trust me they're out there. I say the same thing about myself i.e. don't know where to meet someone but it's because I don't get out much between work and DD and the house chores there's just no life and I ain't about to go to a bar or a club by myself. Eventually it comes down to expanding the 'range and scope' through some positive avenue such as a single-parents or tennis/jogging/hiking meetup.com group etc.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again