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[any chance?]

I am having a very hard time dealing with the fact that I would never, under any circumstances, treat my W the way she is treating me. Never. She is just cutting me out without a tinge of remorse or regret, near as I can tell.

I have been trying to be the nice guy since the bomb got dropped 2 weeks ago (for the second time in a year). She wants out, and wants to start a new life away from me. I told her I would help her with the transition, which shows I am a true moron. I just have a very hard time understanding why she can just disregard everything we have ever had or ever been.

I am having a very hard time thinking there is any hope at all, which makes DBing very, very tough. How do you know when you should just give up and walk away?

Sorry to be so negative in my posts lately. I am having a very, very difficult time. Something you all know far too much about.

Thanks for listening