I wonder if he was telling me how stressed he was and I wasn't listening, or if (as I think) he was bottling everything up. I was sharing too much and beating him down and he wasn't sharing enough. He also wasn't giving me slack for being pregnant/postpartum. Our MC called him out on that early on, but he wasnt listening to anything at that point.


Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible.
--Stanislaw Lem