D1, Time, time, time is how I did it. I also took a 10-week seminar on rebuilding after a relationship ends. I found new friends and spent time with them and plenty of alone time. I started to "peek" into the world of dating after 18 months and made some mistakes. Again, I say it all the time..."You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are." The first few people I went out with were so broken and emotionaly unavailable. Well, guess what? So was I!!! I had to sit back and really do some self-reflection to figure out how I was going to get myself to a healthy place where I could attract healthy men. I've been single for two years now and I'm getting there. I just went out to an outdoor concert in Boulder and had a great time with friends. Tomorrow I leave for a road trip to NC with my best friend. My summer is busy, my life is full and when the time is right that amazing man will find me. Until then, I'm out loving life!!
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
