My w has been having all her visits here including her weekend ones.
Last weekend, we had a talk about the situation. She is totally taking advantage of me, but I set a time line in my head and I'm not going to change that based on emotional situations.
Some insite from others here would be good.
She said she knows it won't last between the 2 of them, he won't committ to anything, let alone her. He wants his own kids, he wants to get married. She says they will never get married, she can't have any more kids. She said she doesn't know how he feels about her and how she feels about him! Over a year into the relationship WTF!
She says she only lives in the moment, and she is addicted to him. She referred to him like a drug she can't let go of.
So uhm, I'm a little lost, not sure how to proceed here. I stayed calm, justified what she said. But I'm very confused. In the last year, she has not progressed at all. No movement forward in that relationship.
My S13 told me today that they probably aren't at OM any more cause one of them. Broke his glow in the dark toilet seat and S9 openly says he hates OM and s15 steals his stuff. So really it seems she is buying time by using my house to keep them away from her perfect care free world.
