I think your ideas are good. Narrow down to get the specifics, good. I feel that given your situation, crying in front of your w is not a good thing right now. It makes you second guess whether she's pitying you or really feeling things so if you eliminate the crying in front of her (and crying in the next room isn't a lot better. Go running or pretend to...but don't cry in front of her. It has not helped your sitch so we know it does not work. ALso, something tells me she wants a stronger H. Sorry but the whole mentor issue and the way she seems to react to the tears makes me feel that way...SO good ideas Harrier, To be clear, please NO R TALK...can you do that for this weekend? YES YOU CAN... NO R TALK, and for this weekend, how about no snooping? Just re read that post I wrote about Palm Springs. You can do this. (remember, you can always snoop away and spiral out of control and obsess LATER...just not this weekend!). It's Memorial weekend, make some good memories.
But why do you resist an activity or class that means meeting new people? You could get one night a week, like you're giving your w?
Might be good for her to be home alone with the kids one night, without you AND without you having to leave the home, kwim?
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