SA I don't know, but I think when you have been at this a long time and also have had a long marriage, it doesn't just end easily. We move along, and then somehow we move back a bit, usually before moving on again. I think even if our marriages had ended gently and by consent there would be times like this, but as it was we were ripped apart.

It is his journey and yours too. We are are wonderful people but not superheroes!!