excuse me but is the reason you won't be able to take d to "extracurricular" activities (none of which will happen for years) is...
b/c SHE TOOK YOUR D 200 MILES AWAY FROM YOU w/o YOUR KNOWLEDGE???...oh, now I remember...
SHE moved ,and SHE should pay for the transportation costs to get d to you too, in my world...
NO way to the name change. The name is hard to pronounce? Mine too. You know why?
B/C OF MY ETHNIC BACKGROUND, WHICH MY CHILDREN SHARE...don't deny your d that gift.
In my opinion you should not dare budge. Refer her to the Ls b/c she is incapable of seeing things objectively. As I recall, you'll win on this anyhow. Your w has the burden of proof to change the name and I don't see it.
She has spent far too much time justifying her actions so she can't see reality. Her L may help with that, maybe not. That's not your problem.
Please tell her to use the L's for the legal issues as it's clear you two cannot work these things out. For instance, she has "forgotten" how D got 200 miles away in the first place, which is the cause of all the logistical problems she now complains of...
Sheesh...where are my crazy pills?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016