KD, 2Step, SF : Thanks so much for your valuable input. I really appreciate it.

Yea, i feel very manipulated right now. She knows that i feel very guilty even things that i am not responsible for. Right now she is using it in full swing.

Yea, i dont want my daughter to feel that i was never there for her. I like the idea where she can have some of her activities at my place. That way she can spend time with me and get to do her activities.

I guess wife is not realizing that these are the compromises that need to be made if she wants to have her divorce. She is totally cake eating right now.

BITs i really could not have asked for better friends than you bunch here at these forums. I thank all of you for helping me out during my hour of need !!!


BITS
M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
piecing now...