In DB, moving on is NOT a decision we should be making to finally seek affection from someone else. Moving on IS about just accepting that what we do from this point forward we do for US. That means choosing to have salmon instead of steak, mushrooms in the rice, going to Perkin's instead of Jack-In-The-Box...
THAT is moving on. Because our decisions are no longer based on the "if WAS was with us, we would go or do or watch..."
And so while, even in the early stages, the LBS should be moving on regardless of the reasons. I think that it's paramount that an LBS "gets" the more important aspects of moving on, as early as possible.
Exactly how I feel, thanks again Kaffe
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
