I agree with AJM80.

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In short, lots of arguments, physical/emotional abuse, alcohol, etc


I am all for doing one's best to save a marriage. But only marriages that can become healthy.

If there is emotional/ physical abuse, that is not a part of any healthy relationship. That needs to end. If it doesn't it is not a healthy marriage.

Originally Posted By: AJM80

I urge you to seek individual counseling.


I agree.


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