Hi, I am sorry it took me so long to get back, we have been married for 23 years together 26. We have one daughter off to college last year finished her 1st year. Awesome kid but we poored our life into her. I have been unemployed for the last 2 years and my income was very helpful. I am in New Home Sales have been for over 20 years very hard to reinvent yourself although I got a job 3 months ago so thats good. He says it always has to be my way, I am stubborn and that he has carried us for the last couple years. Well I guess thats what marriages are about is having each others backs when things get tough. I never asked for the market to be the worst it has ever been in history. I guess I feel as long as everything is fine in our lives I am ok , but we have a major struggle and you want out. He says it has been coming for awhile as our relationship has been horribly neglected. I have been working hard on my issues , tapes counseling and reading to get myself together and fix some things. I am not sure if there is someone else or a mid-life crisis but I Never thought he would be done with me.
