...it's from certain practices done while ML, which you need to alter. Learn those....
25, Please enlighten all the rest of us, on what we need to know.
What I have observed over years of marriage is only certain kinds of lubricants are allowed to go anywhere near her vagina (& saliva is not one of them) and that my wife feels it is important to go to the bathroom (pee) before and right after ML no matter how much I want to hold her and she will never take a bath (showers only) or go in a hot tube no matter what.
What am I missing?
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.