Wow is she ever being manipulative. I agree with Kaffe. When your D looks back on her life, the extra curricular stuff will be forgotten, but you not being there in her life will be remembered. Take it from someone who has lived it! I was in all kinds activities, but it didn't change the pain I felt as a young man watching his friends doing shots with their Dad on their 21st birthday.
Priorities. She is throwing up all kinds of obstacles for you, but they are really nothing. Just lame excuses and justifications so she can get her way.
It is clear to me that she is used to manipulating you. Now that she is no longer succeeding, it is causing her much frustration and anger.
If she has a single kind bone in her body, eventually she will calm down and learn to accept the new assertive mykarma.
Stay the course bud. Work hard on not being affected by her. When you are only affected by yourself, you will be able to speak to her with kindness, even in the face of anger.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
