I was reminded by the posts above that I believe many LBSs do the "wait" thing for reasons OTHER than getting on with their lives.
I have a sneaky suspicion that when we LBSers say we're ready to "move on", it might be more an indicator that we are ready to start looking for someone new in our lives.
Whether that is accurate or not, here's the point.
In DB, moving on is NOT a decision we should be making to finally seek affection from someone else. Moving on IS about just accepting that what we do from this point forward we do for US. That means choosing to have salmon instead of steak, mushrooms in the rice, going to Perkin's instead of Jack-In-The-Box...
THAT is moving on. Because our decisions are no longer based on the "if WAS was with us, we would go or do or watch..."
And so while, even in the early stages, the LBS should be moving on regardless of the reasons. I think that it's paramount that an LBS "gets" the more important aspects of moving on, as early as possible.
