Well Chris if you agree with what many of us say we saw, AND you agree with your wife, then yes apologize. Once. Make no "I" statements or put in anything of working this out.
If you don't agree with her or us...then...up to you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK