Rollercoaster of love

[LearningPatience]

sunny,
yes, 5LL struck a huge chord with me. I used to think W was lazy when she'd ask me to do simple things like get out of bed to turn off the lights or similar. I'd think, why the h3ll can't she get out of bed to do it? I realized after reading 5LL that acts of service was one of her LL. I used to do all sorts of things around the house, but unfortunately her other LL was quality time, and I spent more time keeping up house than having fun. Balance would have helped I guess.

My LLs turned out to be physical touch and affirmations, possibly due to them being sorely lacking during childhood. It really stung when I couldn't even get W to hold hands or snuggle next to me. Grr.

I love camping, but I don't think I can do it for a while. It was about a year ago that I think W's EA started at a group camp activity with about a dozen of us. I found it odd that her and OM walked around the campground until dawn talking, but didn't think I had any reason to be concerned. Hindsight, meet 20/20!