Why! She got a uti from ml on Monday. In the past a nurse blamed it on me. This was one of the things that started killing our sex life years ago. I know this is crazy, but I truly believe that this whole open thing is a symptom of problems in our personal relationship. This is a huge setback. She just told me this morning that the UTI's make her not want sex with me, and said she doesn't understand why she only has gotten them from me.