We all have different opinions. We have only what you give us, to apply our advice to your situation.
What is your goal with your x-wife?
That is what I asked.
Secondary to that, how are you going about achieving that goal?
A state of no change, in a less than satisfactory situation is not a good goal.
I get the feeling that the others, and truth be told, myself fear there is a state of co-dependancy going on here. That you are so afraid to lose her that you'll take any part of her she is willing to give you. Some are going to fear that your empowering her to keep running.
We could be wrong, we could be right. We could be somewhere in the middle.
No one posting to you is going against the DB philosophy. Which also includes: Some marriages cannot be saved.
So daivid, what is your goal, and what are you doing to achieve it?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
