Affair (continued)

[awest1217]

You may be on the mend, but she will have good days and bad days. She will have days where she feels she can forgive and others where it all feels so fresh. It is going to take time. A month hasn't even past since she found out.

TIME! Just be consistent and keep showing her you want to be in this, but right now she needs time to take care of her and figure out her emotions. It is still awesome that she hasn't kicked you out or left herself. She is waiting.

I know with me, I didn't want to go to counseling right away or at all. It wasn't until friends said that I need someone objective to talk to that I really decided I should see a counselor and that is when I got the help I needed, but that was 5 months later.

Time