You have to stand up for yourself and your D, no question. It sounds to me like your W is using your D almost as a hostage or weapon against you. I hate seeing that.

I don't think you are being unreasonable at all. I *really* suggest that all communications go through your L from now on. She thinks she can bully you if she talks to you directly.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011