I dont think you are being unreasonable MK.. However, there is a point about her activities. This will be a tough balancing act but one that should be workable. Bottom line is, you want to be a part of your daughter's life.

As for the name change, again , I dont think that is unreasonable. But times are a changing so who knows anymore.

I think that others can advise you better.

Remeber to stay ultra calm on the phone. Dont give her any excuse to say you are bullying her or raising your voice. Staying calm drives them nuts anyway.

Sorry things are so tough.

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