OK, had a chance to reread your postings. Though you and your W have been having R issues for a while, this breakdown has only been going on for a couple of months. I think what's needed here is patience, which I understand is *very* hard. I also think that it's probably too soon for LRT and going dark. They may be counterproductive this soon into your journey.
As far as FB goes, I agree w/ you that it can be a good PR tool. But... don't let it devolve into a pi**ing match. You're posting positive things to let the world know how swell things are. What others post should be of no concern to you. Remember, once it's in print, it can't be unsaid or unseen.
That said, ask yourself what deleting W from FB would accomplish. Would it move you towards or away from your goals?
It's a marathon, not a sprint. Get a strong pair of shoes on
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011