CTH-I am done. When XH and I signed the papers we also signed a waiver of hearing paper, and so the judge just signed the papers and we are done. No court, nothing. The papers are being sent to me from my L and that is that.

It does feel like a weight has been lifted so that is good, but not that much of a weight because I really think once everything was settled with XH and I, it was over to me.

Flirting will definitely begin, but now to find some guys to flirt with...that is the problem. Not many single guys in my world, but we will see. Very excited to the openness in my future.

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89