W sent $200 to the OM. She claims it was to help him out since he is out of work. I think it is for a plane ticket for him to come this way and see her when I am out of town (she has my schedule for the year) but she denies that.
Why did you do this?
Originally Posted By: telemark
We both brought tons of emotional baggage with us, and never learned how to deal with it.
Ok so that was then this is now. When are you going to deal with ALL your baggage? Now might be the time my friend.
IF
You want to.
Originally Posted By: Telemark
4. W never got over the guilt of her first divorce and our affair.
Did you? Her guilt is hers. Yours we can deal with and that is all.
Just to warn you some may not be so kind towards you because you were the OM in someone else's pain.
Part of your healing?
Maybe?
Me?
We all have to move through life and either learn or not and it really makes ALL the difference.
What do want?
What is important to you?
What are you prepared to do for it if you are not guaranteed it will end up your way?
BTW welcome here. You have come to a good place.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
