Good advice D1. And Golfgirl1, you're right too. Funny thing is that I have only a few nights open --and I have more fun, really, when I go out with my girlfriends than when I have a "blind" date. I have met one nice guy, a teacher...who seems like relationship material, but I'm not sure I want to go there...or not quickly anyway. I changed my profile to say that friendship is the foundation of good relationships...so hope I'm sending out the right vibe. Really, I just want to date a little...not jump into something serious. I do think if you are patient, that God will open the door for the right person.