Trusting I agree with you 100%. I too know that I've let waaay too much of life pass me by waiting on his "awakening". I think that even though this site and a couple others and all of the wonderful people here helped me survive all of this. I also believe that I read too many threads that talked about the MLC'r returning... At the time it was encouraging. Now I see it was detrimental. I keep having those "what if" moments. I work really hard at ignoring them, but once in awhile here it is again.
Really, I am Really doing well. Like I said earlier. I use this site to spill my thoughts and feelings when I need to let some out. Then it's back to the yellow brick road.... Thanks for being here. TOH


Was theotherhalf
XH44
M44
D19
Married 21years
Together 23
Bomb 4/07
OW - MLC
Seperated 8/07
DV 6/09
New Day....