cont.
If they do it once, they may do it again. I know I could not live through that. If you read the boards, it happens, a lot. I have not lost hope, I am now just being more honest with myself than before.

Somewhere underneath the Ml'er is a a very damaged soul. He got stuck at some developmental stage and has to relive it to grow, or maybe not. He may forever be that small child who is acting out his fears, disappointments, and shame. You were just that "lucky" one who got caught in his path.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11