hello new. so much of your situation sounds like mine.....i was here last year and i believed it helped save my marriage..........for a time sadly i am here once again this year with not much luck
i will tell you to not pursue him or plead or cry, or any of those things,,,,,they only push your spouse further away
read through some of the other posts, it really helps take one day at a time and try to take care of yourself
