Still in Shock

[LearningPatience]

I'm so sorry that you find yourself here. I know it will be hard, but the most important thing for you to keep in mind is patience. I took a long time for the two of you to get to this point, it won't be solved overnight.

As hard as your friends' incidents must be, your H is probably mentally checked out, so they won't really register for them like you might think. The good news in all of this is that he is still there. That gives you the opportunity to help yourself, which he will be able to see and maybe react to.

Keep reading, writing here and most of all, remain positive, even if you have to fake it. We're all here for you!