Detach Dog

[ninelives]

Thanks for the input Gr8.

All your advice makes sense and we all know what we should be doing. We should be done with all the splitting up of things now. I hope. Less contact is better I think.

Update: She texts me about a guitar she found on line for oldest son. Sent me a text about it. Wants me to look at and respond.

Then Surprise Surprise. See her at the grocery store AGAIN. She is cashing out as im going in. I bump into a friend as I walk in. MY wife and my eyes meet for a second and then I look away. She looks miffed about something , again.

I go in and start shopping. Im trying to do the anti Medusa thing and not look back. Or orpheus, pick your greek myth.

But I do and she is looking right at me. She then sneers , I think and walks out.

She texts me again about the guitar and then says. Sorry I looked so bitchy at the grocery store. Today hasnt been a good day.

I didnt respond. I dont know what to say about that. I am leaving tomorrow for Southern ONtario again , but this time alone and on my bike.

Kind of looking forward to it but sort of sad. As i mentioned, its our birthday weekend. I will be back Monday for my actual birthday and take the kids out for some Chinese and a diary queen cake in the next town over.

I havent sat down since I got home. Got her bed ready to take and the patio furniture and worked on the pool for about 1 hour.

I know she wont respect my boundries so she will come into the house when I m not there and walk through the house just to see how we are living so I have been cleaning like a fiend as well.

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