I hear you Eric. Thing is, I have reservations about DBing for some people and cases and after some amount of time, (can't define it)
I have to wonder if we're enabling people to not face reality, and stay stuck in a crazy or unhealthy situation, or if we're just retaining hope like good DBers.
There's a fine line in there somewhere and we have to walk it carefully.
in this situation, given the "givens" and his son's comments which touched me, ( God knows what that kid has been feeling) and the woman's apparent attitude, I just feel that although obviously I'm not God and I don't have a crystal ball, if this case doesn't cry out for a new direction, what does?
Plus, I've had a couple deaths in our family over the past 2 years and so, I remind myself and others that indeed, [b]Life Is Short. [/b] (SIGH)
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016