IMO,

The funeral, the mass cards and the luncheon for the funeral were all times to wish condulences.

Did you send her a sympathy card already?

I don't expect to receive birthday cards from my friends wishing me a happy birth but it really sux your W left you.

Totally your call.
I'm just telling you what I would do.
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