Not sure if this is where I should be posting, but here goes. My husband and I have had problems the last several years....In short, lots of arguments, physical/emotional abuse, alcohol, etc.....In 2009, I met someone through work and we started talking, the next thing we were talking daily, texting daily, seeing each other when we travel, he wanted to spend more time, but of course I was married. He is single/divorced.....My husband found out about it in 2010....I came clean with him and told him everything, gave him my passwords to FB email accounts everything and we started MC....My problem is with all thats went on Im not sure I want to be married....Even though Ive explained my feelings and reasons I thought I got involved with someone, he doesnt want to hear it...He says that having an affair is the lowest and Im the one that needs to beg for forgiveness...Any help would be appreciated