I would agree that once a divorce was finalized and the X has married someone else that IMHO, it is time to move on. That said, I do not believe that any of us are in a position to tell someone what and how they should choose to live their life.

From my perspective, we should try and help the person come to that conclusion on their own. FTR, i am not disagreeing with you 25.

Eric

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