But just to toss this idea out to you, (so I know I did) if you bailed on the house deal, you would not be the first person to change her mind. Just so you know you really have ALL the relevant info, what would you lose if you made a different choice? Like maybe moving somewhere easier for him to move? (Idk if it's tough for him to move to your hometown, other than his fears of disapproval, which isn't a big concern but why make it harder than it already will be?)
try to keep the road home paved and smooth...while also realizing you are already moving your kids to a new home and he'd have to leap a bit to get to you guys. SO if he gets there, give him some credit.
FYI, I DO understand your choices.
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