AJM, I think your H doesn’t know what he wants. I think he is trying to keep all options open for if/when he decides. I am/was a nice guy, but never that nice. People do change, part of the reason I am here is due to returning to my roots and being less of the nice guy.

OMW is right about setting boundaries should you decide to stay.

Be proud of the way you handled that, we all know the effort it required. Write books if you need to post them here.


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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill