7 Years in. Time to give up ?

[25yearsmlc]

fwiw, this is the first time in my 5 years here, that I've said something like this.

But it's also the first time I've seen someone here this long who's marriage ended long ago,
and whose former spouse married someone else.

AND she is NOT interested in reconciling with him.

So, If it's not over in this situation, when is it? Are we helping him by pretending he should put his energy into this r? I don't think so.

Maybe a moderator can step in or he can hire a DB coach.