Sunny Cindy:

Im glad you posted. It has given hope to some of the others. The thing about my sitch that makes my DBing efforts tough is the active relationship my W has with OM. Even introduced and is doing things with my youngest with him. I dont see this ending any time soon so I must concede that my efforts will fall short.

I am trying to GAL and doing the things that you have outlined including trying to be nicer to her when we converse but that is difficult for me with OM in pic.

Im happy to hear that you will be celebrating your 28th this year. congrats.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11