I am mad Grace, very mad! H cant see that what he is doing (being with OW) is wrong. He told his mum that he didnt see their relationship as long term, but yet he continues to see her. So is he with her cos she idolizes him? Pleasures him in every way possible. Is this also why he is staying with his current job - because they tell him that they cant afford to loose him. It really is all about his ego isnt it. Narcissistic?
Urrrrggghhhhh why cant i just let him go!
OK I need some advice. I was reading about 180s last night. A 180 for me would be to pursue. Whenever H and I would argue I would stand my ground until he apologised. I was a bit short tempered and stubborn and wanted him to come to me first.
Am i doing the wrong thing by doing LRT? This has got me nowhere so far. I realise it has only been 8 weeks. At this point we do not communicate. He has not tried to talk to me either. He only messages me to let me know when he will be picking up S3. Should I try something different or continue to go dark.
Please help....
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
