Well GAL should always be something you would do for you, but I think there is something to picking at least some activities that your WA could take an interest in and share if she decides to check you out again. When I was DBing eight years ago, I did yoga for me and formed an Italian club -- also for me, but knowing my Italian-fluent H could participate. This turned out to be a great activity for the two of us, and things seriosly began to deteriorate about the same time as we dropped the group. I think dropping the group was more a symptom of larger problems than the cause, but for several years we had something fun to share. --z
