Hooray! Things are already a lot better! I'm moving back over to Piecing and to SSM. Just found out by searching my first name, alottolearn that I'm listed in a topic by JamesJohn called "Successful Women" Ours really is a success story that hit a bump. We are going to be OK. The archive doesn't go back far enough to my very beginning, 1999, but I was in excruciating agony then and outside of some terrible loss, like God forbid, loosing my daughter, grand daughter, sibling, don't think I'll ever feel that again (no matter what my H does, because I'm stronger) until/unless I loose him because, hopefully many years from now he dies before I do and then even though it will hurt, I will hopefully have a lifetime of loving memories for comfort.

I'm hanging around a while--need a serious refresher and to get those skills down as close as I can get to my DNA. We have a lot more good memories to make!


me: 57
H: 54
M: 18 y
Affair over on Dday: 6/99
Never split-up but it was a hard road
D: 38 GD:18
I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!