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So, H is back from his trip. I saw him briefly on Monday as I had a stool, (long story) for him. He was talking to D on phone as I was going to pick S up and said he would come by to get it. I said it was ok; I was going right by there so I’d drop it off at his place and out the door I went. As soon as I get in the van, I get a text from H asking if I’m picking S up first or going by his place first. I said picking S up, that way he could run the stool in. Maybe H was hoping to have a chat without S present but I wasn’t biting. When we get to H’s, S refuses to get out of van, too tired so I run the stool up and was just going to drop it and run. He asks me to come in a take a couple of the souvenirs he has brought back for the kids to them. I do, he comes out to the van, says hi to S and off we go.
So, yesterday S decides he wants to bike over to visit H as he misses him. I say it is fine by me, he just needs to call H first and of course, H says yes. I send H a text about an hour later as I’m going to pick up D at swimming and say to just let me know if S wants to get picked up. I also say that I was glad S spoke up and said he wanted to visit … it was nice to see as he has had problems doing so in the past. He agreed and said he would bring S home when he was ready, no problem.
I send back and thank you and a BTW forgot to say that I hope you had a fabulous trip. OK, here it is, wait for it … had a good trip, good place to visit, as for the company, will be LAST trip taken together. I am a very picky person I’m learning. He went on and on about how stupid she was and drove him crazy (side note, not a long drive LOL), and gave a bunch of examples. Ha, I know him all too well!
Anyway, we text back and forth for a while and I tell him I’m sorry it didn’t work out and I hope he finds Mrs. Right one day. He says he knows he has to take chances and he expects to go through this a few more times but he would rather be alone then settle.
I almost sent a text back with, “well, you know, once you’ve had the best LOL!” I’ll save that for his next OW disaster as I’m sure he’s gonna jump right back up on that horse a few more times!
Stay tuned for the next episode in MMI’s “As the MLC’er Turns”. Sure to mystify anyone who is slightly sane and offer some light comedy relief for anyone living it!
Me: 41 STBXH: 36 D: 11 S: 9 BOMB 12/2009 SEPARATED 5/2010 D SERVED BY ME 9/2010 FINAL D When I'm ready