Can you fight for your rights without becoming enemies with your W?
Very interesting question 2Step. Even with wife putting up all these restrictions on the decree, i dont have any anger towards her. But what is twisted is that wife actually feels that she has and is making too many concessions for me. So the moment i oppose any of her crazy demands, she flys off the handle and says lot of mean stuff (there was an episode that happened 2 weeks ago after i told her that i was retaining a lawyer). So to answer your question, yup, i am all too eager to sit down and discuss with her. But she is not.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...