Don't know about groundwork but doing what I feel is best/works. W will be dropping kids of the eve so will see how things are, but as mentioned I get the feeling from conversations with W and email in the last week that she is questioning her decision. I will test the water so to speak the eve, but will not include asking about our R, M or the future, just going to say that I will be going to Starbucks (see below) on Fri and thought she might like to come (I will be going anyhow as its part of my GAL).
I have been trying to GAL, but thought earlier that most of what I have been doing TBH has been for W's benefit, and it should be about me, well actually it's been a bit of both. I have been reading, going out with friends, seeing family (both seeing friends and family had been neglected IMHO when I was with W) spending a lot of time in Starbucks (chilling out reading the paper in piece!) and cleaning the house (which had been neglected) and tidying up (which I don't mind and actually quite like). Obviously we have the kids week on week off so the slightly restricts things. I have also gone/going back to the person I was, fund, jovial, full of life and my interactions and posts on fb clearly indicate this, which W has mentioned.
Luvless, thanks for your comment, I was a little harsher over the weekend with something, which the initial reaction was short, but then I saw more understanding (I put a few status on fb referring to a comment one of her friends had posted on a comment of W's, she realised this and removed the thread!, so I removed my posts)
If W joins me for a coffee I will carry on with the basic communication but still be doing LRT, if not I will drop the rope again for quite some time!
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
