Will your helping her cause her discomfort? Or will she appreciate it?
After she's gone, will she look back and think of you as a source of misery or a source of peace?
That should help you decide how much to assist her or not.
Me 53 XW 50 M 18 Years +2 S14 D19 Bomb 10-24-10 Served 1-27-11 Mediate 4-21-11 Civil D Final 6-2-11 No church anullment "A man is not finished when he is defeated, he is finished when he quits."