I would tell her that appreciate that she is trying to help. But you also have to protect yourself emotionally in order to be healthy for S3. No, you have not moved on but that as long as H is not interested in reconciling and is involved with OW it is painful for you to "try" to be happy around him and that right now your are being focused on yourself and S3. To do this is to remain emotionally and mentally healthy for yourself and S3.
Blessings!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
